So in a nutshell...

I'm a single guy, not looking to shag anything that moves - I have to find you attractive (if I've winked or messaged then I think you are good)

What do I like...

Typically soft and slow, I like to kiss, very much like giving oral and obviously sex.

Do I soft play - Yes, given I like giving oral it's fine with me.

What kind of people do I like?  Intelligent, capable of holding a conversation... Not looking to be your best buddy, but do like there to be a connection.

What's my best features..  Eyes, Manners, Bum, Arms (don't get the arms thing, but always happy to take a compliment)

What do I find sexy - many things, it's not just about looks, it's usually about attitude.

I am a profession guy - I take pride in my appearance, I'm not gods gift to anyone but in the same respect I'm no minger either.

Easy going relaxed and have a sense of humour. 

Perfect gentleman until you ask for me not to be. 

I love kissing, giving oral...and what follows is what happens in the spur of the moment.

I'm the type of guy who feels that your satisfaction is what counts.  No I'm not going to persist to the point where you want to fake it, but I will put in the effort.

In the more fun side... A few things I would like to try are (in no particular order)

Anal with some who wants it lol
Ffm 
Dp 
Stranger sex
To be thoroughly used (I'm not a sub..)
A significantly older woman
A significantly younger woman
A natural redhead
Someone tall (6ft+)
Someone with plenty of ink
At some point go to a club but not as a single 

Lastly following some feedback (thank you) - I don't do verifications because what happens is private - it's a personal thing that I don't share with the world, I appreciate this doesn't make me look good but I'm old fashioned enough to be that way.