Thanks Neil
So I am one of the lucky ones and will have to include my email in my messages...ok
"unlimted messages" can be seen when you click on "extras" in the left hand menu (from an unpaid account) and you are taken to the payment screen for extras. Dunno what it means.
So new unpaid members cannot initiate contact because they cannot give out their email address, all they can do is wink, and presumably they are not allowed to have an "about me" section on their profile where they could put their email? Thus making the site almost the same as all the other "free" contact sites like adultfriendfinder etc
Search by distance :doh: Oh yeah I see it.
"Pre-takeover" Did the site go commercial at some point then? When I started it was run by a couple in their spare time.
What date would a user have to be registered from in order to know they can reply to messages?