GUYS PLEASE READ MY PROFILE, ALL OF IT!  GUYS PLEASE READ MY PROFILE, ALL OF IT! GUYS READ MY PROFILE, ALL OF IT!

I DO NOT REPLY TO WINKS! AS IT MEANS YOU HAVE NOT READ MY PROFILE!!!!

I AM SAPIOSEXUAL....LOOK IT UP IF YOU HAVE NO IDEA

I DO NOT LIKE COCK PICTURES, SO DO NOT SEND ME AN INVITE IF YOUR PICTURES ARE ALL OF YOUR COCK OR EVEN INCLUDE A COCK.

Single mature lady who is looking for a regular friend with benefits, by that I mean SINGLE MEN, not looking for couples or married men.

PLEASE NOTE, I DO NOT HAVE A CAR AND ON PUBLIC TRANSPORT, SO LOOKING FOR LOCAL MEETS ONLY.  

LOCAL MEANS ABLE TO GET TO ON BUS, NOT TRAIN, THIS MEANS NOT OLDHAM, ROCHDALE, WIGAN, SALE, STOCKPORT.

AND NO I DO NOT WANT YOU PICKING ME UP, I WANT TO BE ABLE TO GET HOME ON MY OWN.....FOR MY SAFETY!

I NEED TO BE HOME EVERY NIGHT DUE TO FAMILY, THIS MEANS I CANNOT ACCOMMODATE!!!  I ALSO DO NOT MEET IN HOTELS.

Friends requests will be declined, I only accept if we have chatted a long time and there is the possibility of meeting.

I am strong minded woman, who is part of the local fetish scene, attending munches (I help run the Bolton Munch) and some BDSM local events.

I am a curvy woman 20/22, 5’ 11”, Looking for taller than me, so that means over 6'

Bubbly personality and knows what she wants and likes, when looking for a man.

I can be a bit abrupt with my replies at times, and call a spade a spade, if you take offence then live with it as that is me and I am not going to change now.

No Asia or Black guys, (Not my thing)

Age range 40 - 55 - I will not meet younger as that would be like meeting my own children

So what am I looking for?

Someone who understands that the mind is how to attract me, decent conversation. Not into sex chat, as I need my mind stimulated to find the connection with someone. One liners do not interest me at all.

I love music and subcultures, plus I am also a at university.

Use your brain to engage with me, I am having some brilliant conversations in chat.