Currently straddling the pond between my home in Glastonbury, my family in Florida and my offices in Los Angeles, the latter within which I engage in the esoteric pursuit of hacking human consciousness. I'm not planning on going anywhere soon because of my step-children, my wife's family and the many dear swing mates who've stood by my side in my past 15 years here in the UK. Trouble is, most of said swing mates live over the hills and far away, these friendships having been formed over a decade ago before swinging had hit the depths of deepest, darkest Somerset. Thus, I'm ideally looking for some fuck- and/or cuddle-buddies closer to home. Sex can be ephemeral, but the friendships last a lifetime.

In all fairness, though, I think I should leave my original profile intact, so you can see what brought me back here...

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Hmmm, where do I begin? Best get the sad bit out of the way first: I lost my wife, Vix, on Christmas Eve 2014. We started swinging together in 2004 but, as her health began to wane, we dropped out of the scene. We did carry on picking up the random vanilla from time to time when she felt up to it, but these became few and far between.

So, basically, I'm totally out of strings to attach.

Anyway, I'm not quite ready for full-on sex just yet, that may take some time. However, I do thoroughly enjoy pleasuring others - "giving the gift of orgasm," as it were, through gentle genital massage - although I can't promise I won't go down on you should the mood take me there (unless you preferred not, just say).

UPDATE (for those who have asked): I was just thinking about sliding the length of my shaft against the flaps of something warm and wet, the deep V of my cock head caressing the clit with every downward stroke... and, should my penis accidentally fall head first into the comforting cavern below, I think I'd be okay with that. xxx

A special note to the ladies: There's nothing I love more than large labia lips. And so, for those women lucky enough to be well-endowed down below, I shall warn you now that I won't be able to resist getting my mouth in on the action, caressing your lower lips with my own, sucking them deep whilst massaging your magnificent minora with my tongue (if that's okay with you, that is, as I'm respectful of everyone's boundaries).

A note to uncircumcised guys: Being from America, the land of cut cocks, I don't quite know my way around an uncircumcised penis as yet, so you'd have to let me know what feels good and what doesn't. A very willing learner, me.

And, finally, a note to couples: As you may have gathered from my photo gallery, a favourite MMF threesome activity is DVP (double vaginal penetration). When I do finally work my way back to full-on fucking, I'd love to lose my "3rd virginity" that way.

A bit about me: I'm a 50-year-old, long-haired, beardy, almost hippy-looking American living near Glastonbury in Somerset. At present, I can't travel, so can only accommodate. Oh, and I've got an 8-inch circumcised cock, if that matters, so feel free to reciprocate the pleasure if you wish, but it's certainly not expected of you.

Apart from all that, I looking forward to potentially re-connecting with some old friends here, and making some new.

And, that's it, really...

~Reese xxx

P.S. ...no, just one more thing: To get a better idea of where my head's at at the moment, I've been preparing to offer my services at an all gender- and sexuality-inclusive tantric festival later this year. The preliminary "menu" I've provided is as follows:

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I can offer you...

- someone to talk to

- someone who'll listen

- a reassuring hug

- a comforting cuddle

- a more intimate caress

- a gentle or passionate kiss

- a sensual genital massage

- a healing touch

- a helping hand

- someone for you to touch

- an open heart and open mind

- a break from the loneliness

- someone who cares

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