Mainly here to write and publish stories of our adventures before and after we married and perhaps a few fantasy games we have talked about in the recent years the kids have left home.

We know what we like as our adventures have slowly and sometimes positively and some times negatively, each time adding one, honing a few and taking two away.

A favourite hang out is the Algarve and threesomes with fit, tall attractive, bi oral, mixed raced, younger guys and active fun socially younger at heart, chilled chatty couples.

A message to you married guys looking to stray to meet your sexual needs and you've not found the right "button" to press at home, then perhaps read our stories and volunteer to join our new podcast, better still, let's have a competion to give it a name.... Please put the podcast title in any reply to us.

E. G. "Honey, where is the..."

And finally, as I sit in the gym jacuzzi with a stinky cold while my wife exercises her endorphins through every pore of her body, I'd just like to say, on my wife's behalf: "if I don't think we'll make lasting friendships; or my body (with the exception of my mind, which is far too busy being;wife, mum, step mum, daughter, sister, colleague ) doesn't give me a nice fuzzy feeling or there is a void where there could have been wonderful, spontaneous, likeable, at ease, witty chemistry leaving me wanting more, then our brief polite, sociable drink, will be our one and only encounter, much to the patient disappointment of my devoted, loving, purient husband: who can't help the fact that he learnt to read to O'Level standard via his parental collection of Escort magazines! We just have to face up to the fact he's on Santa's permenant 'naughty' list!

Though on the plus side he knows a thing or two about buttons....

Happy 2023