R is 45, medium build and a professional discrete white male. J is 41, white blond and generously endowed :). We're long term married, happy, attractive and like to have fun. We would like to try out some of J's fantasies for real and so are hoping to meet someone to play with.

Maybe car meets first with oral/ masturbation before longer arranged meet ups. A male friend that would be happy to take things at a rate determined by J, would be therefore good, particularly if younger ( says J)....

Neither of us are into 'pushy' types so sorry if you're loud and proud - we're after quieter people as new to the scene as we are.

Hope that helps and hope to hear from anyone who thinks we could suit one another.