I'd build a purpose-built music complex that had recording studios and practice rooms, so anyone who wanted to could come down, have a jam with whoever wanted to, or bands could have somewhere soundproofed to practice and facilities to record. Preferably with a venue attached, so there was somewhere to perform (and buy beer from.)
Christina Hendricks from Firefly eh Dlep? Interesting choice... though she is pretty damn sexy. If I was to have a Firefly threesome it would be have to be Inara and Kaylee (Morena Baccarin and Jewel Staite.) Inara would bring her Courtesan's skills and Kaylee would bring her down-to-earth enthusiasm!
But if I was to widen it out further than just Firefly then it gets a bit difficult to choose. On one day I'd say Sarah Michelle Gellar and Alison Hannigan (preferably dressed as Evil Willow) coz I'm in a Buffy mood, but on another I'd say Lucy Lawless and Renee O'Connor coz I'm feeling more Xena-inspired. If I've been watching more films I might say Angelina Jolie (a bj from those lips?) and Drew Barrymore.
Ferne Britten and Lorraine Kelly? I reckon Lorraine would be a lot of fun - Ferne I'd've preferred before she lost all that weight.
Oh so many choices, I could go on all night...
I would've killed (figuratively!) to go to one of Blue's parties back in the day but we started swinging just too late! Reading all about them, I sooooo wanted to go - they sounded both fascinating and fun. Scary? Hell yes! Like a funfair ride or a rollercoaster...
If I had to bring a bribe (I mean, gift) in order to get in to one now I think I'd bring a Big Bang Theory box set and selection of crisps, chocolate bars and pop. (Mind you, most places I go I have crisps and chocolate with me...)
I think the term "asexuality" is a bit of confusing word to use because it is not very well defined in the mind of the average person. We might come across it at school when studying biology, where they talk about asexual reproduction in organisms where they reproduce on their own, without the input of genetic material from another individual. But to translate that into human terms? It just doesn't really make sense.
So I guess human asexuality must be to do with something other than reproduction. Basing it on attraction seems to make sense, I guess. So if I'm a human who is not attracted to either sex, I'm asexual... Unless I'm just attracted to myself, in which case that would make me... a wanker? (Or should I rather say "onanist?")
Like Bluexxx, I've never really thought about how human asexuality does not necessarily imply celibacy if you define it in terms of who you are attracted to (though it does raise questions about the morals and methods of having sex without attraction, e.g. is it possible for an asexual to "make love" as opposed to "having sex?")
In terms of my own sexuality, I'm a heterosexual with unrequited bisexual yearnings, discovered comparatively recently in my life's span. I'm beginning to wonder if the Ancient Greeks had it right - they encouraged middle-aged men to have relationships with young men in order to nurture and guide their burgeoning sexuality. It seems rather "wrong" in our cultural and moral terms but I can certainly see the benefits for both the younger and the older men!
:giggle: Mike I should've expected no less! I'd better not start talking about football and your new manager and stuff though or the girlies will start thinking of unpleasant things for me to do. I don't wanna be made to file blue's corns or something...
Hands Hope a bottle of cider.
Stands around looking like a spare part, but with a slight smile.
Yes indeedy, Rubato and Hope are back in da house! Good to see all the old avatars/usernames/reprobates - it really is nice to reconnect. Hope you're doing ok Postie - we are still keeping on trucking. Life ain't easy but we're still fighting and taking joy where we can find it. It certainly is nice to get lost in a bit of nostalgia here, even if it could've been inspired by more pleasant circumstances. There certainly is a part of me that feels instantly at home again, even if I have to keep trying to remember how things work here!
Well I for one ain't sitting here staring at your kitten for about 3 minutes to see if it still blinks Postie...
But then your point was that attraction is about so much more than physical attraction to someone's body, and that I wholeheartedly agree with. 
I always hated that comparison, and in fact hated Ross too - but a part of me wonders if I hate him because I really can see some uncomfortable similarities between us... 
Hope the bastards haven't ground you down too much! :therethere: