Well it beats stamp collecting or knitting as far as hobbies go... it has to be about fun and a sense of humour is very attractive to us. We like to get to know people first to see if there is a rapport/chemistry,and like to be able to get on with people we meet on a social level, also, we'd like to chat with BOTH partners in a couple before a meet, to make sure we're all ok and up for it, via e mail, , phone or whatever and we do have a web cam if you'd like to see us.

We are a very secure, loving happily married couple, we've been married 19 years now and know each other inside out,which means we don't have any insecurities or hangups about seeing each other with other people, we have had a lot of fun and made some great new friends here, met some lovley peeps, and it's very much enhanced our own sex life and social life. We don't have many rules, but we love kissing and foreplay (so if you don't do kissing better move along LOL), safe sex is essential. Not into pain or watersports but SM does like a bit of light bondage, and loves her toys, she also loves men in uniform!! PD lurves watching SM have fun with other men. Although I am straight (I love men) I don't mind being touched or playing with a woman in the flow of things if it feels right, but sexy men are the main event and turn on for me.

We've had meets with some lovley single males on here, but we're really looking to meet more couples, it would be great to find that elusive couple that we have a real rapport with.

Did we already mention condoms?? We absolutely will NOT play bareback, this is absolutely non negotiable, please don't think you can try it on in the heat of the moment or leave it until we meet to refuse to wear a condom because it will not happen!!!