i am married, but wont pay to change my profile, not yet anyway. been on loads of sites, but this one seems better and more genuine than the others. just looking, just thinking, but who knows? someone or something might catch our eye. tell us what you're into, or suggest something different to get our attention. we are new on here, and the wife will need swooning or won over, i'm easy, and if allowed will try most things twice, lol. to save time and hassle, a message with information is more likely to be read than a wink, pics aren't there for a reason, work and respect within our area. what we like and fantasize about doesn't have to advertised for the world to see. If you don't understand that, then you are probably wasting your time and definately ours. And does anybody really want to arrange something without meeting in a neutral place first? I know i don't and the wife certainly wouldn't.