OK Ive tried the 'Hi im nice ad' but its not getting anywhere at all, so adding this bit as well.

I love lingerie, I love to wear it during intimate moments and would like to find a women who would like me to wear it for her, failing that might be up for a bi couple or a crossdresser, what do you think? Looking for some NSA fun times with sexy women and couples, I like my women to dress sexy and be confident with what they want, slutty sometimes but also can take or leave it. In the bedroom I like to be dominant but can switch when required. Just get in touch an say hi it doesen't hurt to just say that.