Hi Sparkle and welcome. I hope you are not getting too much snow in Yorkshire today.
Hi, I understand exactly what you are saying. My partner has had the same experience in recent times. We bought a We-Vibe and have to say it is now our most used toy in the box! It is small and comfortable for both of us, but gives a real buzz (literally} to penetrative sex. I realise this is still using 'buzzing plastic' but it is so must more intimate than anything else which gives her a strong orgasm.
Good luck in finding what you are looking for.
Love Simon x