Essentially I am a submissive but no doormat. 

I am not looking for quick fucks with random strangers and if you live far away and we won't met, I won't be interested. 

I am attached. 

What I am interested in requires an emotional connection and that goes beyond the superficial. Quality friendships matter. I need you to make me laugh. I regard that as a necessary foundation. I am very much a sapiosexual and I expect anyone I am involved with to be the same. You must have your shit together with a compassionate nurturing soul. 

If you aren't a genuine experienced Dom, I won't be interested...

No one-night meets, MMF, unsafe practices or those who think being a Dom is just bossing a girl about.

The Dominant leads, guides, and protects the submissive. My joy is in pleasing the Dom but if you are an uneducated idiot, no joy with be found because I need to believe you are worthy of your role!

D/s isn't a game to me or amateur dramatics. The /s is who I am and with the right person, it really isn't all physical. Often it's not physical at all.