I’m not looking for a relationship, but I want more than a one night stand. I need to feel a connection with someone to be able to have sex with them. I guess I’m looking for a friend with benefits of sorts. I don’t just want to meet for sex, I’d enjoy having a drink and social side too. I’d prefer someone local, ideally Sheffield as I don’t have the funds to travel far for meets and certainly don’t have a hotel budget.

While I’m not really into the whole S&M thing, I do prefer a more dominant and confident partner. I’m quite shy myself, so I need someone with a larger personality for balance. In an ideal world he’d be somewhere between Harvey Spector and Christian Grey! Not so much looks wise, more the personality. I’d like someone to help me explore my sexuality and open me up to new experiences. I’d love to go to a club at some point. 

I’m not looking to meet a couple or married men. I’m happy to swap face photos before a meet, but not interesting in swapping nudes... A) it’s never easy trying to get a flattering shot, and B) does it really matter what our bodies look like?! 

I work full time Monday - Friday so I would prefer to meet up on a weekend and I will insist on meeting for drinks before deciding to take anything further.