I am just on here to prev really.  Not interested in meeting anyone or playing.  I have a big health issue, which I am dealing with in my own way.  

I may go to clubs in the future, with a friend.    

I did have a fwb, but we let each other down.  Then he massively let me down, so I am not about to be that hurt again.    

I do not expect either of us to only have one partner - the point of swinging is to have fun, explore, be honest and enjoy.