Note, I am now seeing Gemma, who wants to explore her kinky side, so,... we can come as a pair.... and often do!!I’m good at sex, I know how to please a woman (if she will let me, I don’t do pushy!) I’m a long stayer and I promise that you will cry stop before I do! I like to think I’m a good guy to know. I’m polite, clean and I’m mature enough to hold a conversation, listen to what the other person has got to say and respond, and also I know how to treat a woman with respect. So, I’m looking for excitement, fun and naughtiness! (If there is such a word!)I've a 7" long cock but its also very thick, so it touches both sides at once so to speak!

I’m quite tall, 6’6” with my shoes on, a rugby player (no David Beckham that’s for sure!) Tall dark and not so handsome!!! As you can see by the photographs I’m quite fit. I’m looking for NSA meets just once or more if we hit it off and become friends. (It’s your call) Tall girls with long legs and black stockings turn me on but I’ll try anything once (or twice) you can be active or passive, sub or dom. I also would like to try a threesome.

I’ve been with a few girls I’ve met on the net and the last one was 32 years old. She thought she was doing charity work taking me to bed but I made her come five times! (And… I still see her!)

If you are looking for a good guy who can hold a conversation and who wouldn’t embarrass you in front of your friends, and who is also a really good shag, then, I’m your man.

These are a few of the reasons I want to explore new people and new experiences.

Life is for living after all.!Note, - since I wrote this I have now split up with my wife and I'm now single and living in my own flat in Hoddesdon. So,- Welcome, swingers, pull up a groove and lets get fabulous!!!

So, me..... Normal guy,(not too sure if you girls want normal)???? Not a weirdo! (I know this site does attract some of them)! Respect for one and another would be a good starting point, also I've tried to live by, - 'carpe diem' That's Latin for 'seize the day' for all you Latin lovers!

So what have I learn't? Well, I learn't that life is full of disappointments and that you have to get up and get on with it! long walks in the rain, short runs on a beach, lazy days under the sun, and... female company. So Come on guys...lets not kid ourselves, - why we are here?....we are all looking for the spark of life! Why shouldn't we get wild once and a while? If you have any objections to that please feel free to message me and we can discuss!

I'm tall, 6' 5" and dark hair, I have a well worn face not overweight but not skinny, I prefer tall girls in stockings and suspenders but hey! We can't have everything can we!

I've been married for a long time, but that has come to an end, we are separated and I now have my own flat in south Hertfordshire, I am enjoying life and gradually building a different life to the married one I had for 28 years so now, I want to branch out from my usual circle of friends and meet new ones, life is too short to not reach out and try new things or meet new people. I have a great sense of humor and if we were to go to see a film I'd let you chose what we see, but make it a funny one! I also love parties, fun, the outdoors, sport, and a disco if it's not full of kids, (I'm a bit of an old disco queen deep down!) I play rugby and can turn up with the odd bruise or five, but it's my way of proving to myself I've still got it!!! As for women I do like a girl who can hold a conversation but foul language from a woman's mouth absolutely isn't me (except maybe in the bedroom) When I left school I did a course in physiotherapy and can still give a good neck and back massage, (its one of my best features!!) Baby oil at the ready.....

I run my own business, (so i am solvent if any of you girls are worried) and I can hold a conversation on most levels and I believe that I'm a good guy, and I respect women and I still find it hard to write this stuff about me so I'm no self obsessed narcissist! Phew! Photos of me are available on request, (a bit like me really!)

So, that's me then. I'm not looking for anything too serious after just breaking free of my previous marriage. If you are looking for a tall fun fit guy who is good in bed, likes a laugh and a drink, has his own place to go back to and can warm you up on cold winter nights, - I'm your man!love Alex.

Love Alex