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Stolli
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 56
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Quote by brucie
Chatting this weekend we decided there were 2 elements that turned good sex into great sex,
First,a connection with the people ,that mental something that means sparks are gonna fly
Second ,imagination and a willingness to relax and see what the imagination has to offer.
So what turns up the heat for you?

good sex is with kylie
great sex is with kylie and danni
nahhh - great sex is with the Saturdays wink
I dont think there is a right or wrong answer - you could save one and sacrifice the other is an old dilemma - thinking coldly about it the one with the best chance of survival should be saved first without putting your own life in danger of being lost - I would save my wife first - and learn to live with the loss of my child and with my own selfish guilt - blimey ive gone all maudlin thinking about this one sad
Quote by Sweetshybabe
today i am wearing a charcoal cashmere sleeveless v neck jumper

You mean a tank top ffs
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Quote by bbw_loverNkitty
You might want to download a piece of software called "macam". It has all the necessary drivers to make your external cam work. You'll need this before the hardware can be recognized.
*lover*

true but im not gonna say it lol
Quote by makeucumtwice
ok, so the latest is that we both went into the apple store in cardiff, had a chat with a young guy there - he made it work on msn but showing me the settings, i had to tell him i didnt really want to cam with anyone on the contact list in the shpo there and then lol
then i asked if i could check a chat site ( this one ) so he looked away - it still didnt work even after checking the settings - so i said to him, i'm going to give u an interesting story for the staff, and explained to him we used an adult site and couldnt get the cam to work on there - i opened a private room and showed him the settings - he said it is probably a problem between logitech and flash and suggested contacting them
he dealt with it really professionally and we both had a chuckle on the way out -
it would have been a turn out for the books if we had cammed in store - especialy the way mrs make cams lol
so, i have sent an email to logitech
i tried everything on the last post suggestion, including downloading the latest flash, and tried for ther drivers, but for this model you apparantly dont need them ?
so ,any more ideas, its a great cam and very clear, i only have a few days left to take it back if its not suitable
xxx

have you tried removing flash 10 and installing an older version - that fixed one of my lappys until new drivers were issued by the cam manufacturer - btw quality on fessing up to the guy in the shop - bet he's looking for the site right now wink
Quote by Cubes
Sorry... I missed it. I was busy hoovering the datacentre floor. You wouldn't believe how few power sockets a big place like that has.... I had to unplug some of the compooters to run the Dyson! loon

I'm gonna have to chip in to buy you an extension aren't I?
wink bolt
this is a bandwidth and noise ratio issue - if you have sudden changes of volume while on a lower bandwidth connection you will hear squeaks from what little I understand wink
Quote by Gufuncouple
1 - make sure you have the correct MAC version of Flash player installed for your OS.
2 - make sure you have installed the correct drivers for your cam.
3 - logon to the chatroom
4 - Right click and select MY SETTINGS
5 - Click on the Cam Icon
6 - you should now see the options for integrated cam and usb cam
7 - select usb cam
8 - should now work
:doh:

:thumbup: and if that doesn't work try googling your problen - there are loads of forums with this topic in and suggestions....I need an intel mac to play with .. lol
Quote by meat2pleaseu
OK smile
Do you use Firefox and if not why not? Get it installed.
Secondly google java and flashplayer and shockwave and get the latest versions of them installed :). May help you xx
Gary xx

Ooooo ok thanks :) I did get firefox but all my links and saved fave sites would have been lost according to a friend so I'm still using IE. I'll try updating the Java thing and the other one though :)
No they won't. you install Firefox and start it for the first time and it asks if you wish to copy your IE favourites over to the FF bookmarks wink
Firefox rocks - and you get better plugins to do allsorts with lol
in chat make sure under right click cam box - settings you have selected the usb cam in flash camera settings source.
hope this gets you further.
The mic function works when your cam is enabled - click the cam button and then you can enable and disable the mic using the simple button.
To adjust settings for the cam or mic right click the cam box >settings and select the mic tab to select your source and adjust volume etc.
If others have their mic activated you will hear them when you view them.
Hope this helps
lol
Quote by Bluefish2009
i have been thinking what impressions that we get of people are correct
when i first started using the forums there were peeps on here i got the impression were just looking for an arguement constantly but now realise that some things can be misconstrued in txt as there is no hint wether its meant seriously or jokingly
i sometimes think i might give the impression of being an ill educated, ill mannered bolshy little bitch ok so the ill educated bit might b right but i like to think the rest would b wrong
oh ffs now i'm worried i'm giving the impression i want everyone to jump in n go no no my dear we think your lovely i'm really not wanting that at all
the actual point i was trying to make is i have found over the time i have been using the forums i have learnt that the when i think someone is a brat that actually they ain't
omg i babble bollux sorry
wat started this was lp's voices thread some of the voices i read in have real attitude to them but i have since reassesed my perception of their character but yet their voice still has the attitude in my head funny one that

We all make first impressions of people, I think the only important thing is that when we find out those first impressions are wrong that we are man enough to say so. :giveup:
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The forums would be dull if we all diguised our true self and didnt form impressions that are either incorrect or true.
I just read that and now im thinking what the hell am I babbling on about poke
Quote by Bluefish2009
We have noticed in several profiles the words "exceptional males only"
My question is, how does one know if you are exceptional or not? And what does it mean, exceptional what, Body, looks, conversation?
If I was a single male this statement might scare me off

Im scared off already bolt
Quote by flower411
Is Mal just an idea magnified into corporal reality by the ministrations of other mods and ops who assist the tenets of SH by applying control over the general populace to provide solace and discipline within the boundaries of what is acceptable avoiding anarchy that can only be controlled by severe means?
There are numerous theological arguments that both support and are gainst this.
Mal is neither male or female but merely an idea to me and will only be relevent should I seek to be part of the idea. You cannot label ideaology it just won't stick.
Food for thought - we view Mal as an all powerful being - yet would not we be perceived mods to those who have no knowledge of our technology to allow or deny pics, to forgive or to ban? The debate will continue but there is one thing I am glad of - no matter what your culture there is always something to seek solace with be they only an idea in your time of need when alone.
Oh - and I don't per-se think there is a Mal, but a universal state of control that applies to all life within the Universes both known and unknown - I prefer to try and rely on my perceptions both visible and not to move towards explaining the unexplained.
That's my two penneth worth if confusing or of help wink

Surely this is what you really had in mind :wink:
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Is god just an idea magnified into corporal reality by the ministrations of shaman/priests who assist the tenets of society by applying control over the general populace to provide solace and discipline within the boundaries of what is acceptable avoiding anarchy that can only be controlled by severe means?
There are numerous theological arguments that both support and are gainst this.
God is neither male or female but merely an idea to me and will only be relevent should I seek to be part of the idea. You cannot label ideaology it just won't stick.
Food for thought - we view god as an all powerful being - yet would not we be perceived gods to those who have no knowledge of our technology to create and destroy, to cure and kill? The debate will continue but there is one thing I am glad of - no matter what your culture there is always something to seek solace with be they only an idea in your time of need when alone.
Oh - and I don't per-se think there is a god, but a universal state of control that applies to all life within the Universes both known and unknown - I prefer to try and rely on my perceptions both visible and not to move towards explaining the unexplained.
That's my two penneth worth if confusing or of help wink
I have to admit I have seen the site change a few times now, but each time it seems difficult then binggggg it all seems easy - I think the change is for the better - we just need to give it time to get used to where all the buttons are again wink
Quote by Lassy09
forgive me father for i have sinned....
after making gingerbread ham sandwiches my hubby had a pic taken of him eatting them and has been teased since hehe wonder what they would say if i told them i covered the toilet seat with cling film last night so when he had a pee he got a taste of his own medicine having to clean it off the loo seat :twisted:

Life with Lassie09 must be hilarious :bounce:
Watched it up to the point Katie Price came on - that spoilt it for me totally - 900 channels and nothing worthwhile - off down the pub !banghead
Quote by leatherednperky
Batman with Bale and ledger was very good smile

well it would of been if it wasnt for christian bale heath ledger completely made that film take him out and it would of been complete shite
does batman count as a remake?
Yep - Batman was a remake and possibly the best remake ever...darker, gritty and very watchable although i have to say Muppets Christmas Carol should never be redone and Lost in Space should be deleted forever lol
Fantastic episode that really struck home that without regeneration, the doctor becomes all that he fights against in the end and so with the cloister bell toll we now know this is the final death knell of the best doctor since John Pertwee.
Looking forward to a new face with a new angle - hopefully they will bring back lots more of the old baddies lol
Quote by secksy_cpl
Let's face it, the x-factor has never been about the singing ... it's always been about how many viewers Simon Cowell can pull in.
It was all four judges who put John and Edward through to the round where they go to the judges houses - if they really thought they were crap how did they get that far.
Simon Cowell put them through because he knew they would cause controversy. If they weren't in it what would we all be talking about?
The x-factor has always been about the judges. If it was about the contestants there would be more of them still around now, making money. Leona Lewis was a fluke they didn't expect.
It's a shame because the contestants are the pawns in their game ... once the show is finished I don't think Simon and co really care what happens to any of them. There should be a show called Judge Factor, see who can actually make a winner into a success!
John and Edward, love them or hate them, are two 17 year old lads who are being used. I actually felt really sorry for them last night. If Simon had sent them home x-factor would have lost half of it's viewers.
Ok ... rant over rolleyes
Mrs Secksy

Funny you should say that - i think of it this way - if they go, simons revenue goes down due to lower phone votes - if they stay indignant from cheshire joins the rant, as does outraged from london etc....newspapers make money like mad and so chat forums increase memberships and all of a sudden .....here we are all arguing about it.
Simon Cowell is a very crafty clever man - hats off to him for stirring up the hornets nest - im sure he has increased the phone voters 100%
I wish I had thought of that bolt
I got 203 - that's great if you count all the trees rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Quote by varca
i've just been trailing through the archives, trying to see if someone is still an active member of the site.
It dragged up lots of old names and good memories from when i first joined the site.
If id won the money i'd hire a hotel completley and hire a private detective to descreetly track them down and invite them to an old SH'ers reunion party, just cos i'd love to chat to some of them again :mrgreen:

Even the one that was on BB? :lol2:
Is it me? :giggle:
Quote by Varken
This is not something that would be taken up on site. We already have facilities for people to make the first part of their postcode available on their profiles for other members to view if required.
A significant number of members do not want other people in the wider world to know what their personal habits and interests are. It could lead to all sorts of difficult and compromising situations.
The reason why we don't allow email or postal addresses, dogging locations with specific meet times or telephone numbers to be published on site or in chat is because it is a risk to personal safety.
Some people join sites such as this for reasons other than what it's intended for. These include journalists, those looking to expose people they know (or complete strangers) and those looking to sell dubious services.
Personally I'd steer well clear.

Good answer :thumbup:
I suppose its that magical ingredient - feeling comfortable, having a giggle and just clicking with other people - thats my two penneth worth anyway :thumbup: