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SubBiFem
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 38
0 miles · West Midlands
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It's best to keep an open mind about your first time with another female. Sometimes our nerves can be our worst enemy and can ruin expectations in a blink of an eye. I stil get nerves when I do meets but once I am settled and comfortable I just go with the flow.
If you feel any pressure or are made to feel uncomfortable by the other then put a halt to proceedings. You don't have to walk out, stay and continue to get to know one another till it feels the right time and if/when you are ready to proceed. Hopefully if the other female has experiences with other woman then she will pick up on your signals and body language and she will just wait for you. Don't ever feel bad about disappointing anyone. At the end of the day your first experience with a fem will help you define your sexuality and I hope you have a good experience for your first time. It's all a journey and you alone will find out what you enjoy.
If it helps don't feel insecure about flirting, some light touching, stroking. This normally is an ice breaker. Just remember the other female might be just as nervous. In my experience when another female is nervous I can feel it and start to think about about the other female more than trying to enjoy what we are doing. Always remember when you both are ready then that is the right time. I wish you well and good luck with your first time. xxx
If you feel any pressure or are made to feel uncomfortable by the other then put a halt to proceedings. You don't have to walk out, stay and continue to get to know one another till it feels the right time and if/when you are ready to proceed. Hopefully if the other female has experiences with other woman then she will pick up on your signals and body language and she will just wait for you. Don't ever feel bad about disappointing anyone. At the end of the day your first experience with a fem will help you define your sexuality and I hope you have a good experience for your first time. It's all a journey and you alone will find out what you enjoy.
If it helps don't feel insecure about flirting, some light touching, stroking. This normally is an ice breaker. Just remember the other female might be just as nervous. In my experience when another female is nervous I can feel it and start to think about about the other female more than trying to enjoy what we are doing. Always remember when you both are ready then that is the right time. I wish you well and good luck with your first time. xxx
