We are both shy and submissive so we are looking for a confident (but not rude,arrogant or pushy)couple or fem to direct proceedings. He is very submissive and wants to be dominated by an assertive female or females. She is less submissive but still shy. He is willing to try pretty much anything (including WS),she is keen on new experiences too (but not WS)and particularly enjoys oral. We have kids so connot accomodate very often. Hoping to meet couples and fems and maybe a bi male (but the latter only after getting to know in the rooms first).