This is not easy. What are we looking for? Some fun I suppose. We're both completely new to this type of thing. Bit frightened about it as well, as it seems a bit strange to be even contemplating it. I suppose we want a guy, who's bi-curious, & I think I would want to get to know him first and then introduce to my other half as a friend. Perhaps for a start begin with some naughty emails, stories, etc to see if we're on the same wavelength and then take it from there. Quite keen on the idea of being filmed while making love as well. I think the point is that it needs to take it's time. We're neither of us into the idea of meeting and shagging! Bit of a strange profile I can see but you're probably getting an idea by now that we want to take it slow and see what happens......