Just for a laugh I'll post one I wrote years ago...
Night
Silent, shine her sapphire eyes.
A tiny twinkle teasing there
Inviting evening's cool embrace
Around her soft, white skin. Her hair
An auburn glow as moon caresses
Soft and silken. Subtle senses
Lost within her lifelong tresses
Til passion's fire relents, and hence
I lay entwined in arms of velvet,
Tasting scents on night's sweet breeze.
Inhaling deep of ardour's smell, yet
Lost in her I aim to please
Then miss a little just to tease
A torture I perform with ease
As now with grinding hips we meet
To make our one brief night complete
With eyes of fire that sear the soul
Her movement now beyond control
Towards her inner goal she strives
As both our bodies come alive.
And then, so suddenly we cease,
Our essence joined in shared release.
And as the stars above us shine
We start again. We have the time.
My first post on here and I am beginning to fear it may be a contentious one.... but here goes.
When it comes to the subject of putting face pics on profiles I would almost go as far as to say the site admin should make it compulsory in the site rules... hear me out...
As "swingers" (I hate that word, but hey..) we enage in sexual activity that is, on the whole, not considered normal. Abnormal only in that we are honest to ourselves and our partners about what we do - look around, all the non-swingers are shagging each other left, right and centre, they're just lying to their partners about the fact, but I digress. However, if you look at the profiles on this and other sites you will notice that everybody is at it. People from all walks of life, all backgrounds, all creeds and religions are represented, and I'm willing to bet there are loads more that don't advertise. My point is that though what we do may not be "considered" normal, in actuality it is normal (in as much as that word means anything) to be non-monogamous. What the hell has this got to do with face pics?
Well, every time we hide our behaviour and/or identity it is like admitting to ourselves as well as sending the subtle message to others that there is something not quite right about what we are doing. Does anybody on this site truly feel naughty for engaging in their nocturnal (and frequently diurnal) activities? We certainly don't.
Surely if there is nothing wrong with what we are doing then we should not be exhibiting any shame behaviour at all and should in fact be proud of who we are? I know many will argue about job security and public reaction and the like but in retort I would like to draw your attention to the shift in public reaction to homosexuality since the Pride marches started. If we act shameful the public will always react scornful, by acting shamefully we give them the idea we are doing something wrong in the first place.
Told you it would be a contentious post....
And it hasn't finished yet either....
Because my second point also needs to be examined, and that is it makes for some bloody awkward moments where there need be none. Many times we contact or are contacted by people with no face pics on their profile and we will enter into an exchange. Then face pics will be sent and we will realise that, shall we say, no attraction exists for one or other of us. Now we aren't shallow people, surely this post demonstrates as much, and so while personality can make the plainest people look like gods and goddesses for some of us it just...er...can't! Sorry! At this point we are forced into the situation where, despite their protests to the contrary, we know we are hurting someones feelings. Do you follow me? This is an unecessary awkwardness that could so easily be avoided.
But anyway, I'm bored to tears from typing all this drivel so I can only imagine how anyone unfortunate enough to read it all must feel so I'll stop.
Bye for now
Matt
(Stella would never type this much crap)
