Greetings! Recently returned to the site as a singleton, so I thought I'd post this to say hello.
Some years ago, my ex and I arrived at a guy's house for a meet. Imagine our dismay when he answered the door in paint splattered jogging bottoms and an unironed t shirThat's how he stayed as well, no effort made whatsoever, very scruffy. To be polite we stayed for a drink and chat until he said, 'so are we gonna do something, as I have to get up early in the morning'.
Anyone had similar experiences?