Excellent.
Not sure what the term is for stealing something that is already stolen..but whatever it is I'm going to do it.
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ThirtyfourD
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 55
0 miles · Bournemouth
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I think, as long as you are being honest and that your profile makes it clear that you are not operating behind your partner's back then it shouldn't be a problem for any parties involved.
I've had conversations with the male half of 'so called couples on here' that have come to a halt when I asked to speak to their other half; makes me wonder sometimes if their partners even know that their pictures and details are on the site.
The fact that you thought about this Will puts you in a completely different category from the deceitful scoundrels that use swinging sites as a way to have affairs.
I've had conversations with the male half of 'so called couples on here' that have come to a halt when I asked to speak to their other half; makes me wonder sometimes if their partners even know that their pictures and details are on the site.
The fact that you thought about this Will puts you in a completely different category from the deceitful scoundrels that use swinging sites as a way to have affairs.
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My ex continually tried to push his cuckold fantasies... but was never interested in mine, eventually it just got too much and now he is my ex!
Be careful what you wish for...maybe your wife will find that stranger irresistible and you'll end up with an ex wife rather than the loving one you already have. There are plenty of other ways to spice up your sex life..but mostly they should be about what you both want, not just one of you.
Be careful what you wish for...maybe your wife will find that stranger irresistible and you'll end up with an ex wife rather than the loving one you already have. There are plenty of other ways to spice up your sex life..but mostly they should be about what you both want, not just one of you.
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Quote by Trevaunance
What if a person's partner no longer wants (or can have) sex?
What if that person wants sex but doesn't want to leave their partner because they love and care for them?
What if the person doesn't want to pay for the coldness of a prostitute or have the emotional complication of an affair?
Who is permitted to judge that person and define for them the meaning of "swinging"?
Or the meaning of cheating.
If all of the above were true, for me it would still depend on whether that person's partner knew about the swinging. If I spoke to her and she had no problem with it then neither would I. On the other hand, if either I or she were being deceived then I wouldn't be happy to play.
My personal choice. I have to say since making this clear on my profile I have reduced the number of messages that I receive. I think it help to be clear and honest from the start.
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Quote by willxx69
If anything, honesty is MORE important in a swinging (or open) relationship than in a vanilla relationship. Without that honesty and openness it's just plain, old-fashioned infidelity.
Will xx
:notes:
might steal that, sums up my thoughts exactly.
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I'm not sure I expect honest answers here but ladies could share their experience.
1. When sending messages and chatting when do you admit to not being single?
2. Do you think it's fair 'not to tell' because the women you are talking to are on a swingers site?
3. Do you see swinging as a way to have extra marital affairs?
Me, I want to meet single guys, I don't mind if those guys see other single women but I don't want to be the 'other woman'. My personal choice and if I decide to see a guy more than once I definitely want some honesty.
Of course roles could be reversed but there are far fewer single girls on here and being married won't stop a woman getting meets.
1. When sending messages and chatting when do you admit to not being single?
2. Do you think it's fair 'not to tell' because the women you are talking to are on a swingers site?
3. Do you see swinging as a way to have extra marital affairs?
Me, I want to meet single guys, I don't mind if those guys see other single women but I don't want to be the 'other woman'. My personal choice and if I decide to see a guy more than once I definitely want some honesty.
Of course roles could be reversed but there are far fewer single girls on here and being married won't stop a woman getting meets.
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Quick question as couldn't find an answer in the T&C...Can I have a single fem account and a couple account?
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I get quite a few messages and requests from guys far younger than me, often in their early to mid 20s. I'm not sure I get what they are looking for although I fully realise that everyone has different tastes. So, my question to the guys, what makes you want mature women? And to the mature women who have said yes, was it worth it?
