I'm 41 years young, I'm very fit for my age and go running / workout with weights at least twice a of this I believe I am quite well toned. (I also have a lot of stamina). My hair is brown and has no grey, which I believe is down to my healthy lifestyle. At the advice of friends and colleagues, I have recently allowed this to grow a little bit and so I think it looks quite retro and funky at the moment. I wear glasses but also wear contact lens. I have been told I look quite sexy in both. I am not obsessed with my appearance but like to keep myself clean and smart. However I am good with my hands and can get a bit dirty and sweaty sometimes. People often tell me I scrub up well and smell nice. I'm looking for someone(s) who can be trusted to be discreet. It is important I feel I can open up to them and be myself. I have been married a long time and don't have any intention of leaving my wife. However the sex has completely dried up and I feel like I have developed with age a high sex drive. I have not slept around in my life and apart from my wife have only had one other full sexual partner. This was recently, a lady who I worked with. She was in her twenties and we had the most amazing sex. She said I had a natural talent for sex which had clealy not been explored fully. We had wild sex in a hotel room, I must have made her come a dozen times. I seemed to be best in the deep stick position. I also showed great stamina she says, as I lasted three hours inside her in various positions before coming. When I did finally come, it was extraordinary. I have never had an orgasm like that before. So now I'm hungry for more. I don't fancy men at all (sorry guys), but I would be very interested in a threesome with two women (can be a lesbian couple). However one woman at a time would also be great. I suppose I would be willing to participate in a threesome with a male & female as long as I'm only performing with the woman. Don't mind a bloke watching if that works for him, but no touching.