I am not currently meeting, I will hopefully again in the future but just not right now. That's my choice and no amount of asking is going to change that.

Winks will be ignored/deleted so pleased don't bother to send automated messages. I don't accept random friend requests, I have lots of good friends on here and don't need to collect friends. If we chat for 10 mins in a chat room or in PM is does not mean I want to friend you or meet. Just because you live close to me does not mean that I will want to meet up with you, in reality it makes it far less likely. Equally I cant travel long distance. I'm not interested in meeting up with random strangers at short notice, 1. I like to get to know someone first 2. I can't do short notice and 3. My safety is paramount.

I am not looking for single men, but that does not mean I won't meet someone if I get along with them and click on some level, there has to be some basic level of attraction (and that does not necessarily mean looks or cock length). I'm just not actively seeking single guys. On that note I appreciate honesty, if your married then be honest, if she knows and doesn't mind then great, but I'm not interested in being part of some lie or deception.

I enjoy chatting and having a laugh in the chat rooms. I do often go on cam, but when I do whispers will be off so if you want to chat either say it in the room or mail me. I like to get to know people and then if any thing extra happens then that's a bonus not an expected or given. I also like to meet people socially and occasionally go to clubs when I can. No longer the shy timid girl I was when I started!