Us : middle aged , middle class professionals ,not fat, not thin : got some some crazy ideas and enjoying sex . We did a 3some with a guy last year & that was great . We want to do some more , try some new combinations in 2010 : neither of us is bi-curious. He is black , she is white .Neither of us have tattos, or piercings and we would not be happy with people who are tattooed or piereced , or who smoke or dabble in drugs.