OK - I appologise for my redherring post, I knew all the info but didn't translate it very weill in the first instance or the second actually ! - So yes she didn't mention she was HIV+ for the first 3 days which is a very big worry but the fact she did mention it in the ammendment was good of her but it still to me anyway a wake up call, it's easy to get carried away with the posts that want bareback sex and "come on me as you please" kind of thing, my gravest thought was that some guys are obviously very popular on this site and I'm sure they rack up lots of meetings, which just got me to thinking how quickly a STD could travel arround the community of SH. Now as responsible adults we all must take care of our own welfare, but it's easy to get lost in the desire of the opportunities that swinging gives us. So just a call out to you all to stay safe and have fun.
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I know what your saying, but at first the add failed to mention her HIV status, it was up there for about 3 days, then she ammended it, I think she is good for being honest and I'm sure she finds herself in a very difficult situation if it is a real add, my comment was that isn't it a bit of a chill when we are directly reminded about the risks that are out there, and that having HIV+ people on a swinging site should make us all stop and think.
Is it me or do I find the fact that someone on SH is posting and saying that they are HIV+ a little worrying ? OK It's good that she mentions it and that condoms must be worn but I get a bit of a chill when I see this. There are many unsafe posts on this forum asking for bareback and very experienced partners and we have to look at this in a honest and safe way.
