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Triedandtested7
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 79
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Thanks for the encouragement from Maia etc. Us blokes have a lot to contend with. I'm only 5.5 on an average day and pushing 6 on a good one. The magazine Forum back in the 70's did a cock survey and realised that if you can get someone you really fancy to measure it for you it will be a little bit bigger than if you measure it yourself (unless you cheat of course lol) Then it was 5.5 average size and I have lived my life thinking OK small but average! What we have we have been stuck with. Would I like it larger perhaps, but if it was what would I do with it apart from answering all the adverts that want over 9". Do I go out with a women just because she has large breasts? No I go out with her because she makes me laugh and I find her BRAIN tremendously attractive. So do you have a large cock? possibly and good luck to you as you don't seem to be meeting any more than I do with a small one!
It's such a pity that people have to split hairs to prove their point. I joined this site for geniune reasons and so far have sent E Mails to two adverts. The first I admit I chanced my arm but I was honest and very genuine. I did get a reply and I answered that to be left with nothing else but total silence. Perhaps I upset them? I don't know I E Mailed them again to sorry if I had and if so perhaps they could tell me what it was so I could quickly learn not to do it again :- and still nothing so presumeably they don't have the courtesy of telling me "Thank you but no thank you". The second advert I answered I read 3 times to make sure that a) I had read it correctly and b) I complied with everything they asked for. As I did I sent them an E mail and I am still awaiting a reply. I am a married man but the wife dosn't play so perhaps I am cast as a single, either way if people both in the forum and those that placed the ads were a little more respectful to both reply even if it is a NO I AM NOT INTERESTED and to take stock of the other persons viewpoint then this site would be a lot better. Does it really matter if its 60% or % the point seems to be some ads prevoke time wasters and perhaps others don't. If yours did you have to try and sift the good from the bad if yours didn't then this time you have probably been lucky but who knows what might happen next
I am sorry that silk and big g thought my last posting was "tinged with more than a tad of fantacy" I have no reason to lie and although my body can't run as fast as it used too my brain is still very active and not liable to fantacy 
. I told it as it was and according to reddog still is. I basically agree with reddog and dirtydoggers that the way times have changed has lead to increased expectancy "yesterday a glimps of stocking was looked on as something shocking now heaven knows anything goes" etc as the song goes. So back to the inital question...... from the posts I have read it seems it all depends on who you are and where you are coming from. If you are simply expecting to watch as a pimper then possibly having an organised meet is a lot safer as everyone knows the rules. If the pimper wants to participate then it depends on the couples concerned. It seems that some like to be talked to and respected for the shows they put on while others believe that it is nobody elses business apart from their own and don't want to make any contact what so ever. If this is the case then No the internet has not spoilt things it has changed things sometimes for the better and sometimes for the worse. Like most things in life not many of us like change but change happens as does new technology as does ones perception of morals and expectations 
. I told it as it was and according to reddog still is. I basically agree with reddog and dirtydoggers that the way times have changed has lead to increased expectancy "yesterday a glimps of stocking was looked on as something shocking now heaven knows anything goes" etc as the song goes. So back to the inital question...... from the posts I have read it seems it all depends on who you are and where you are coming from. If you are simply expecting to watch as a pimper then possibly having an organised meet is a lot safer as everyone knows the rules. If the pimper wants to participate then it depends on the couples concerned. It seems that some like to be talked to and respected for the shows they put on while others believe that it is nobody elses business apart from their own and don't want to make any contact what so ever. If this is the case then No the internet has not spoilt things it has changed things sometimes for the better and sometimes for the worse. Like most things in life not many of us like change but change happens as does new technology as does ones perception of morals and expectations Thanks for all the kind response. Over the years we have got up to all kind of capers. By we I mean a dear friend of mine who is now dead. We met while watching this couple from opposite sides and after they left he turned out to be a really nice guy so for 30 years we used to meet up usually once or twice a week. The thrill of the chase was mentioned but we used to look upon it as a craft. The aim was to get as close as you could to get a very good view and then depart WITHOUT being seen. An old pimper up in scotland a long time ago told me "if you can't get a good view then go away and come back another day because if you don't you will give yourself away and spoil it" It was wise words and as I said before being chased and beaten up is no fun, but even when you take this on board you can still get caught out. We spent all afternoon once watching this couple in the woods and we were sure we were well hidden. They kissed and mucked about for over 4 hours yet did nothing and we wondered why. Just as they got back into their cars they both looked in our direction and blew us a kiss. Obviously we had been well rumbled some long time before. Three scary tales to leave you with. A regular site just outside Bishop Auckland got a couple who really did go to town and the word amongst the pimpers spread fast. My friend and I were really keen to get a piece of this so we met up and drove to the site. We parked the car and yes this couples car was in the trees. We were just creeping towards them when we heard a slight clunk and proceeded to watch Mr Plod climbing down a tree. He then went and arrested two other guys who were watching the other side of the car. Without the sound of the handcuffs it could have been us. Not too far away was another site which also had a good reputation, untill we arrived to find a pimper with a gun pretending to be a game warden. Not only did he threathen us but on a subsequent visit shot at us and because we were into the woods away from the road he could probably claim he didn't know we were there if he had hit us. The last was a place just outside stockton which always had regular couples. The path was enough to get a car in and the trees covered the path. We built this 'hide' in the tree and spent many a sunny afternoon having some great shows. After two months of saving petrol and fustration by nothing anywhere else we were up this hide, got a great show and just after they left we were just climbing down when we noticed that the branch we had built the hide on had been sawn 80% through. How it never collapsed under our weight I will never know. Perhaps someone reading this knows who did it
I am now getting old but for the last 40 years I have enjoyed the sight of couples "putting on a show" and believe me it hasn't changed much. We "pimpers" as we used to be called really enjoyed the thril of the chase as well as the the actual action. I have been chased, beaten up, follwed to where they thought I lived and then knocked on the front door presumably to tell the wife. The real decline came when girls started to live on their own and could invite who they wanted back to their place. It went further down hill when the turfing out time of the pubs changed from 10:30 as you would always get the couples getting horny in the pub rushing down to the local site and then going back to join the clubs. Obviously a lot of men can now get their kicks from the internet as it saves getting cold and removes the possiblity of honging around all day or night and not seeing anything. In many ways its more open now although I am still very very wary of approaching couples just in case it is a trap to beat me up again and I can't run as fast as I used too! (lol) So perhaps the internet does have its place. It means that I can arrange a meeting with a geniune couple and not have to be too worried about others finding out and telling the wife.
