First of all to avoid any offence. If you are a smoker or part of a couple with a smoker, either occasionally or regular we are not interested. It's top of our Avoid category. We are looking for couples near to our age group 35-55.

To anyone new or who we haven't met yet we have had some great meets. We are members of the Vanilla Alternative and try to go at least once a month. If we like what we see you will get a friend request or an acceptance if the other way around.

We would first like to see pictures and have a chat to see if there is a little bit of chemistry, then either a meet in a pub or hotel, so very casual and not setting any expectations. We know how nerve racking if it's your first time. We are quite open to anything depending on the type of person/couple we meet. We do not play on the first meet (unless there are exceptional circumstances i.e distance)

We are a genuine professional couple, enjoy luxury and very clean with grown up kids. We can't accomodate at the drop of a hat but wiling to share any costs towards hotels, also can travel. Trixie is shy but once started can be quite a handful, Trig is adventurous but very conscious about people's feelings. We love camping and the great outdoors and would like to do full swap in tents in the warmer months!

NOTE: If you are made a friend please don't be shy, say hello we don't bite and dont expect anything by chatting. We see a few people adding us as friends then blanking us, don't see the point in that at all. We dont collect friends for status if you know what we mean.

Look forward to hearing from you.

T & T

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