A true gentleman, well mannered and groomed but with a naughty side which means I like to play. Intelligence, cleanliness and a good sense of humour is essential. Whilst I am happy to chat I am really only interested in meeting, drinks first usually to make sure all are happy and there is some attraction or mutual interests. If I say I will meet I will and expect the same from others - not unreasonable surely.

Particularly favours voyeurism and soft swing to spice up friendly couples, and single women's, play times. Happy to work within strict boundaries - for example the third person in a threesome but no penetration, and also happy to assist in photography and video making. Purely for fun and pulse racing. Of course, if invited to fully participate then I am more than willing.

When getting up close and personal I particularly enjoy being very attentive. I am a long stayer with a strong labido and imagination so I don't have any do's and dont's. I can meet daytime and evenings or over night if invited. BDSM lovely.

Also very interested in club meets and parties. Not been to either as I write this but they sound fun in the right company. Anyone more experienced than me willing to hold my hand? With that in mind, as a single male invitations are limited so would love to find a regular playmate for parties and couples to broaden opportunities and be friendly.