We are kinda new to the life style. I say kinda because we have had an experience with soft swing and she loves the touch, smell, feel & kisses of another woman. We have flirted with a couple of males and couples and found ourselves very excited. We think it is time to take this to the next level & no better way than to just jump in the deep end. We are a married couple that has been together for 17 years & married for 6. Our kids are grown and gone, just the way we like it. Time to express ourselves. We really like to meet for drinks and a game of darts to see if we all get on first. She really does not like expectations! So please if we all agree to meet up no expectations on the first date. Now that is not saying it will not happen! just don't show up expecting fun.