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7 Mar 2008

Quote by Sara_2006
i am in chat and in the forum as well its not the room controllers that cut and paste its the general chatters that do it to make the room host aware they are beining whispered and by whome. we will have to disagree yes as you obviously are a more tollerent person when it comes to rule breaking than i am

Sara if you knew me you wouldn't say I was a tolerant person...lol, I've been on here for about 5 years was regularly on cam and often controlled the room, i just learnt to ignore the whispers & directing, those rules have always been in place but it still goes on, so its not working is it, I don't condone it, I just don't let it get to me.
one's first step to wisdom is to question everything - and one's last is to come to terms with everything.
uok

6 Mar 2008

Quote by Sara_2006
no uok i think you are its very annoying to have to sift through the constant uninvited whispers and the directing when you are on cam its not as easy to ignore as you think if it goes on and the offenders are not put into check ....... as well as them breaking the chatroom rules
perhaps we shoudnt have any rules in society and just ignore what goes on around us from petty things like being rude and offensive in public (same thing in chat)

Sara I accept and respect to a point what your saying, but it's also annoying to have to sift through the constant reminders of the rules, if someone is breaking those rules and are whispering to you in private and they offend you, whisper the rules back to them in private, Not the room, the majority of the room knows the rules, ( that's the obvious ) and don't need constant reminders.
and why cut and paste there whispers to the room, we don't want to know what there saying to you, is that not something else, we then have to sift through?
if the room controllers are not seeking self publicity why publicise the whispers!
anyway Sara I'm off so we will have to agree to disagree.
would we be on this forum if the chat rooms where open ?
uok

6 Mar 2008

apart from having to state the obvious, your missing the point.
uok

Quote by Jon
With respect, why don't you just ignore it, if you don't like being directed or whispered at, just ignore it , it's that easy!
uok

With respect, directing in non directing rooms is against site rules.....as is whispering uninvited in ANY room.....

6 Mar 2008

With respect, why don't you just ignore it, if you don't like being directed or whispered at, just ignore it , it's that easy!
uok

24 Nov 2007

Bazza64
we are going to cupiids tonight, might see you there
uok

24 Nov 2007

merseypair
we are going to cupiids tonight, might see you there.
uok

23 Jun 2007

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15 Jun 2007

where are people going now in merseyside now that xxxxxxxxxxxx is out of the question?
whisper me lol

14 Jul 2006

I got in the chatroom for 2 mins b4 it went off, but there was a lot of people in there. wish SH would post here letting you know it's faulty (again)

17 Jun 2006

anyone going to Xtasia tonight confused

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5 Feb 2006

Is the charoom down again?

30 Jan 2006

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13 Jan 2006

Any other couples fancy joining us this Saturday night at cupids?
We might even consider going to a different club
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brymo

11 Nov 2005

hiya Alan and Rach
We are also out onSaturday night and would love to join you both, get back in touch with us with details. Hope to hear from you soon
Kellyrocco xx

11 Nov 2005

anyone out in the merseyside area tonight or saturday couple looking for fun :-)

10 Nov 2005

on friday get in touch

20 Oct 2005

Any other couples fancy joining us this Saturday Friday night at cupids?
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uok

15 Oct 2005

Anyone else going to Xtasia tonight?
hopefully see you there wink

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uok

31 Aug 2005

Thinking about going to liaisons in Rochdale, has anyone been there lately as I am looking for some feedback as to whether it is any good on a Saturday night for couples.
Regards
UOK

4 Jun 2005

hi horny red
we will be going saturday night see you there ;-)
will come over and say hello
kellyrocco xxx
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7 May 2005

anyone going to cupids tonight ? i'll be there with my very bi-fem wife :-)

4 Sep 2004

See you tonight hopefully
uok biggrin

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1 Sep 2004

I totally agree with you, i think? confused

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uok