A small update after several months on here and much wasted time.

Still very very new to this idea. Married for 15 years we have decided to try something new. It would be an understatement to say we are nervous. We like the nicer things in life and that includes people. Manners are very important to us up, we are not about to jump into bed on a first meet, so if that is what you want please move on. We are looking for an intelligent,attractive, relaxed, fun couple to have a drink with or flirtatious dinner to see how it goes. We need to get on and be comfortable. The evening must have good conversation with humor. This is not just about sex but a social adventure too. Ultimately we would like to try same room fun just playing with each other and watching the other couple, and see how it goes, remember we are new to this idea and so need this to be respected. We would love to hear from similar couples, new to this or also or long term swingers who understand where we are at. We are both in reasonable to good condition for our age! We love to travel and enjoy talking about travel experiences. Sorry but slim(ish) is order of the day, well groomed, polite and honest. We can meet daytime or evening, so lunch or dinner works for us.

many thanks