I am looking for women for BDSM. Even when I'm looking for men, I'm never interested in straight men (or those who pretend to be straight). I'm not looking for men right now. (You're almost certainly not the exception).

Have own place in Banbury, looking to establish more than a one off.

Ultimately I'm looking to establish relationships with people rather than have casual sex. If you're just looking for casual sex it probably won't happen with me. I know that sounds strange on a swingers site, but ideally I'd like to find people to partner with and then perhaps go to clubs and so forth. It's swinging Jim, but not as we know it... Also into kink, please shoot me a message if this is your thing, would be great to find someone to go to fetish clubs with. Beware - I'm genderqueer. Don't expect me to be feminine.

I currently have a shaved head. I also have large (both gauge and diameter) piercings in my labia and hood. I am quite partial to extreme body modification, especially with piercings.

I'm primarily looking for women into kink and have a strong preference for those who can accommodate. If you're not bisexual or not into kink, you must be offering something pretty unique for me to be interested.

N.B. I am trans-friendly, both F2M and M2F, in my outlook. I also particularly enjoy women who are into crossdressing.

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I get that some of you don't believe that you're 'cheating' because you justify it with a thousand excuses. But if your partner is not fully behind you having sex or relationships with people other than them, then I'd prefer that you didn't get in touch with me at all. I find it hugely disrespectful for you to ignore my wishes on this point.

I have several partners, everything is legit and above board - we're open, honest and polyamorous. My partners all have the highest levels of integrity - we do not accept cheats or liars within our network.

No unsafe sex. No bareback. No unprotected oral. No photographs.

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