Returning after a break. I'm based on the edge of the North Wessex Downs, with frequent trips to London, the Thames Valley, Oxford, Cambridge and overseas. I'll be visiting Devon quite frequently over the coming months too.

Polite, warm, caring, friendly, reliable, upbeat and considerate professional guy, with (I'm told) a good sense of humour. Six foot, grey eyes and brown hair. I'm well educated and love to chat and have a wide and eclectic range of interests. I'm in reasonable shape, whilst hygiene and cleanliness are guaranteed (freshly showered and smelling good) and likewise expected. For those to whom it's important I'm also, apparently, quite 'girthy'. Naturally, personal hygiene and cleanliness are key - I'm afraid that I'm pretty OCD-like in this respect! As such if we meet you'll find me clean, tidy, freshly showered and smelling good. However, I don't live on this site (real life etc. intrudes LOL), so you may occasionally have to wait up to a week or so for a reply. However, although busy, I'm flexible as I'm lucky enough to work for myself and run my own diary. I have some experience of respectful and playful fun with couples, and it's something that can, if we all click, be amazing. Whilst I don't fancy other guys, I'm more than comfortable with close contact that can arise as part of a threesome, and I can be 'heteroflexible' in the right company.

I'd like to get to know intelligent, open-minded, urbane and friendly people who enjoy good conversation and value sensuality and communication as highly as the (albeit very enjoyable) physical mechanics. I'm very much aware of swinging etiquette and understand the dynamics of being privileged enough to be invited into the personal sex lives of others, and the thoughtfulness and courtesy that this deserves. In the case of couples I completely understand that my presence is for the enhancement of their relationship, and it's an honour to be invited. As such, the lady's or couple's pleasure always comes first.

I also happen to think that niceness is hugely under-rated. From my perspective it's far more important that looks alone. Sensual touch, kissing, relaxed conversation, massage, good food and wine along with an easy 'let's see were this goes' attitude is my kind of thing. Utmost respect, consideration and, where appropriate, patience, are also high on the list. I've also a soft spot for 'soft' play - there's more to life than penetration, not that it doesn't have its place too!

Please give me a shout if my profile appeals. If I 'wink' you it usually means I'm interested, and I'll assume the same if you 'wink' me. I've no verifications on here yet, but I'm on Fabs as Wessex Gent and a few people have been kind enough to verify me and say a few nice things.