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WolfsRidingRed
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WolfsRidingRed
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Quote by Mrs_somers
cooooeeeeeeeee!!!!
Only just got back online after a 4 month break (thanks to BT) and desperatly want to go! couldnt get to the one in nov as we had no internet!
mr & mrs VT

Welcome back biggrin The list filled up really quickly so will add you to the reserve list, and then let you know when spaces are available.
thanks
The somers
Ta very muchley! i'll pre-book the babysitters now though - in the hope!
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WolfsRidingRed
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cooooeeeeeeeee!!!!
Only just got back online after a 4 month break (thanks to BT) and desperatly want to go! couldnt get to the one in nov as we had no internet!
mr & mrs VT
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WolfsRidingRed
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Back from visiting family in cornwall - loverly weather!
and look who we brought back with us..

she's called banjo and she's 9 weeks old!
vt xx
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Am I the only one excited about the new Harry Potter tommorow.
redface
lol
Louise xx

nope! i am even braving the floods tonight! :shock:
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WolfsRidingRed
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WAX!!!
no way am i ever EVER EVER going near an epilator again! :scared:
sex - on the beach or in the sea
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WolfsRidingRed
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Hi and :welcome: from sunny swindon!
Fabio's right, this place should come with a health warning! its seriously addictive!
have fun!
Mrs. V xx
edit: :shock: you know its sunny you live right by there too! redface
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Quote by keeno
I thought it was about time this got resurrected from the grave! lol
I have just finished Wilbur Smith’s THE QUEST
It’s the 4th book in his Egyptian series, and he took his time writing it!
To say I was unimpressed is an understatement. It goes from enjoyable escapee fiction to complete science fiction; imho the only similarities from the well written earlier novels are the characters names!
Mrs V

I've never being a big fan of Wilbur Smith. I know he's popular and sells millions of books but the couple of novels I read were poor. I thought they were cliched and with many dubious plot devices that didn't work or crank up the tension. :cry:
agreed, i just cant get intothe other books not in the egyptian series. I've tried and tried but they just dont appeal. This fourth book is written in the same style which is why i haven't enjoyed it!
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WolfsRidingRed
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I thought it was about time this got resurrected from the grave! lol
I have just finished Wilbur Smith’s THE QUEST
It’s the 4th book in his Egyptian series, and he took his time writing it!
To say I was unimpressed is an understatement. It goes from enjoyable escapee fiction to complete science fiction; imho the only similarities from the well written earlier novels are the characters names!
Mrs V
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WolfsRidingRed
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Attempting to sway the vote would be positively unscrupulous innocent

:rascal: :rascal: passionkiss sillyhwoar: duel :duel:
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WolfsRidingRed
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Quote by winchwench
Good on ya, me heartys! Aaaaargh!
Just found this- not that I'm trying to sway the vote at all, not me, no never....

Your pirate name is:
Bloody Mary Flint
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WolfsRidingRed
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Quote by splendid_

I also think it’s an issue about safety. We have discussed the problem of strangers, and what to do. That she should tell us if someone touches her and makes her feel uncomfortable, hurt or sad.

I have taught my son all about sex/differences between genders etc from as soon as he asked the first questions. :- Aged 2 seeing me on the toilet "oh mummy, where is your willy?" with a look of sheer fright on his face.
I also didn't specify strangers. I never ever told him to 'kiss auntie/uncle ### goodbye as I am well aware (as we all should be) that most sexual abuse happens within 'the family'. He needed, from an early age, to know exactly how he wanted to be touched and by whom. As much as the idea is repugnant to me I know that I can't protect him from an abuser that I may have a perfectly healthy adult relationship with. I needed to allow him to have choices. I have never touched him without asking him first. 'can I have a kiss/cuddle please?' He also asks first.
What I have now is a confident, sexually aware/open 14 year old.
He kisses some of my male/female friends and he initiates that contact. (much to their delight and surprise as they have been chosen)
He is open about sex and gives advice to his friends (who are having sex) about relationships,love, feelings as well as how to put condoms on. (This is something that I have been through with him annually since he was nine)
I firmly believe that sex education is something that should be done by anyone that is confident to do it, and the child trusts enough to ask.
I am not sure that I would want to the school to get in their first, when their views about sex are heterosexually and monogomy based.
perhaps i should'nt have used the word strangers, but expressed it as all people!
on the point about school i am quite happy for them to be teaching her, however it is a very forward thinking school and their lessons will be covering most (not all) different types of relationships. They are aware that there are 2 gay parent familys joining and have made it their purpose to express the different words and meanings to the children. e.g. familys arent always a mummy and a daddy. sometimes there is just a mummy, or a daddy. what hetrosexual and gay means and that all are acceptable. i doubt they will be going into too much detail in either aspect having seen the basic lesson plans, but i do think its good that they will be teaching accptance and normality for all different family dynamics and orientations.
and WOW splendid you sound like you have a well rounded and open teenager! something i sincerly hope my daughter will be! :thumbup:
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Quote by Dawnie
Just a thought, maybe some parents need educating on how to explain things to a child dunno

Too true!
Parents imho should be a Child’s primary source for sex and relationship education! It’s a sad fact that a lot of parents I have spoken to about to start the pre-school are happy just to let the school handle all sex education for their children. Schools just don’t have enough time to devote to this!
We as parents should be teaching them about relationships. Let them see and ask questions about the differences between boys and girls. Answer their questions honestly and at a level with their own understanding.
Our childminder is great and has also helped in this process. She has let our daughter feel her bump and the baby inside moving. They have a Doppler so she has also heard the baby’s heart beating (as she did when I was preg with her baby brother too). She is aware we (and the other parents of the children she cares for) want an open approach to sex and relationships. So whenever questions have arisen they have been discussed in the same manner we would have and she gives us a breakdown of what they have talked about too. This allows us to bring the subject up at home and build up a full picture.
Our daughter knows the very basics of sex and how a baby gets in there - but there is sooo much more we teach her about relationships! We make sure she sees warm hugs and friendly kisses between mummy and daddy (and other family members). This I hope teaches her that physical affection isn’t just about sex, and can be expressed in many different ways.
I also think it’s an issue about safety. We have discussed the problem of strangers, and what to do. That she should tell us if someone touches her and makes her feel uncomfortable, hurt or sad.
Lol right I’ll shurrup now - too long a post for so early in the morning! lol redface
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"sexy" ones who look more like Chubby Brown. It's really not fair.

:laughabove: :laughabove: rotflmao :rotflmao:
well we found ours when someone sent me and email with a "machine" to discover your lap-dancer name!
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WolfsRidingRed
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I think early sex education is essential. It doesnt have to go into the nitty gritty of things, however they do need to know the basics!
I started my periods early at 9, and we had had no sex education, not even the lesson about periods or puberty. Luckily for me my parents were forward thinkers and i had lots of home education on sex and relationships so i didnt think i was bleeding to death when it happend!
My daughter is 3 and has already been asking questions. She has a 1 year old brother, her childminder is pregnant and we currently have a litter of kittens, so being the astute girl she is she wants to know how they got in there. I bought a very very simple book which explains the basics and have used this along with my own common sense to try and teach her. We dont hide nakedness from her and answer her questions openly and honestly.
She starts pre-school in september and already we have had a letter asking us to give permission for sex and relationship lessons. This i think is only a good thing, they wont be getting sordid or giving out lots of information at this stage, but to begin learning about relationships and their own bodies is a good thing imho.
mrs v
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wild night out! :rascal: hump (although a wild night in is always good too)
mobiles - love em or hate em?
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