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an__amp__naz
Over 90 days ago
Male

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Thanks to you all for the posts.
Please ignore if i hurt or made anyone feel bad about the posts.
We have discussed and open for webcam one to one chat with other genuine and experienced couples or munches in local. Its not affecting anything, just knowing and understanding the swinging lifestyle and that would help me and wife to understand if she had misconceptions. I have got the answers here.
Learnt from past postings, etc ... we have to be very careful and not rush.
Thanks very much to everyone who has replied.
Its my mistake i did not give the background why she backed out.
Some of them thought i am after just other woman and pointed i could very well pay for it.
Others say i am not sure.
The fact is me and my wife and loving happily married couple and enjoy.
It was my wife who read about swininging on net and over last 2 years we have been talking about it. I love her and we talk quite openly about these aspects.
After discussing, realised she was keen for a MMF threesome and i also liked it.
We posted advt here and got some very good responses. Spoke to a couple and other guy over phone. We invited other guy for a coffee too so that we can know more.
During this wife was chatting with her girl friend in general about swinging and her opinions. Her friend told her about the religious aspect etc. That became a reason my wife pulled out of this saying we can't go ahead. Since then it has left a deep desire in me to try swinging.
Thanks for all your advices and help.
Thanks Andy and Equi, if i go solo swining while wife doesn't approve swining... i will be cheating. I am confused as i am having deep desire to get swining for years now.
We are couple in 30/26. We fantasized and loved the idea of swinging.
We even went ahead to post advt here and got some decent replies but to the end wife pulled off saying it contradicts with religious beliefs. I am still very much interested and not sure. Did anybody else come accross similar situations and how did you resolve it.