We have been swinging on and off for 2 or 3 years now. Its not a lifestyle thing for us its the occasional bit of fun that we like to have a laugh about with people. If anything else happens thats great but for us its about the social activity as much as good fun.

We have met a few couples, had some great fun, made some great friends and see a couple of them regularly for social fun as much as anything else..

We are members at Xtasia, Utopia and Atlantis, tho we havent made it to any of them for the last 6 months with a hectic life !

T is 34 (but really doesnt look older than 27), 5'8", fit body (very athletic), size 12, 36C boobs, great legs, blonde hair, blue eyes and a bum that looks fantastic in thongs ! (well R says so !). She is gorgeous and does turn heads in the street. Been enjoying experimenting with her bi side and considers herself more bi-friendly than bi-sexual – although the touch of a woman is fantastic you cant beat a good cock ! she also gives fantastic bj's (no complaints so far !) She always dresses to please.

R is 5'8", 36 (but looks younger) dark hair, medium build, told he's good looking and working off that cple of extra pounds at the moment.

Our ultimate aim in all of this is to have fun. We don’t take life too seriously.

For couples we would prefer to spend a relaxed evening getting to know people over dinner and a few bottles of wine. If something clicks and happens after that great, if not, well hopefully we all enjoyed dinner and made some new friends. We are not looking for people who just want to jump straight into bed. We would also say we havent set any real boundaries except the usual "no's" and therefore would be relaxed with either full or soft swing.

T really enjoys the occasional 3/4 sommes with single guys and we have seen several of the guys we have met more than once. However, she can afford to be picky and has her own criteria for guys:-

1. You must be good looking with a reasonable body

2. You should be intelligent and able to hold a conversation

3. Prefers guys to ideally be 23 - 33. Its not set in stone but older guys dont really do it for her.

4. Minimum 5'8" (she is over 6' in heels)

5. Gotta have hair on your head and your own teeth. And if you got hair guys its gotta be dark - not into blondes !

6. In her own words its the "rugby player" type build she likes - and not the Saturday beergut rugby crowd. Guys that means she really isnt into guys who are slim. With the athletic build she has she likes her men to be the same.

7. Realise the most important sex organ is the brain

8. Be happy in group situations - we have had a couple of experiences where guys struggled.

Sorry if it sounds a bit picky but its her fantasy and she has to fancy the guy. Oh and if the guy is VVWE thats a bonus !

Guess we should also say guys one liners of "tell me more, look at my profile" dont work. If you cant put the effort in neither can we to respond. Its also useless to assume we would meet a guy if we didnt know what he looked like, so either make sure there is a clear pic of u on your profile or send us one !Sorry we have gone on but you really have no idea how off pissing it gets getting replies from guys that clearly dont fit what we are looking for then get upset if we dont reply. All the guys we have met will tell you a bit of effort is worth it !

We are easy going, relaxed and told we are fun to be with and are looking for the same. certainly we wont entertain any pushy people. On top of this we are very clean and very discreet and would expect the same of anyone we met.

Since we have already chatted to our fair share of timewasters we now insist on early phone contact, for couples that means the girls, to establish everyone is genuine.

We do have a young family, so while we can travel we generally need a few days notice to arrange the usual babysitters. Generally we accommodate.

If we sound like the kind of people you would like to have fun with then let us know and we can take it from there.

Thanks

Tracey & Russ