I have been called a time waster a couple of times and here is the reason.
I logged into the chatroom and within 30 seconds a private message pops up from a guy and it says " nice pics would you like to come and suck my cock?" When I have declined to just drop everything I am doing get into my car drive 250 miles and suck his cock he called me a time waster. Along with the fact that my profile has me down as straight and I had not even been chatting to him. Why do some guys think that just because you are looking through the chatrooms that you will be able to drop everything just to go and please them, then when you say no they think you are timewasting?