we are a happily married couple into most things(not pain,w/s)we are getting back into the scene after a few years away. we want to make new friends that we can socialise with as well as have "fun" with. we are not pushy as we like everyboby to enjoy themselves. we dont want single men although single women are considered and we are just not intrested in time wasters as its time we could spend chatting to another couple