i think some guys do use it as a way of getting a shag. i though have known i've had a liking for guys since i was about 15, but at that age it is hard to do anything about it, i actually lost my virginity to a girl, before a guy. i am now 35, and i still like guys, but i also love girls. i am unfortunatly in the position of having a girlfriend, whom i love very much, but who doesnt understand my bisexual side. she likes to explore that side of me in the bedroom, but is reluctant to allow me to go out and play. if something was to happen when we are say with another couple, she would go with the flow, but the only way i can really satisfy it is to discreetly play without her knowing. it can be a life of termoil....!lol
