Thought being Valentine's day I'd resurrect this thread for a bit of lovin' and flirting...
It does what it says on the tin..... flirt with the former (as in the person who posted before you) forumite just for a bit of fun.
You don't have to know them.... so why not try a sneaky flirt with someone you have never flirted with before
Do try to be creative
Try to make it funny
Or just give it a try if you have never had the nerve before
Yeah, I know the downside is the 1st person gets me
PS - those flirting pro's - please try to ration your flirtation to give someone else a chance
We've been in a situation where a devastatingly attractive man became very unattractive to me purely because of his arrogant "I don't have to try" attitude.
pink x
bugger - he was so sexy...and with a gorgeous wife .... but it confirmed my initial thoughts on what I would do in such a situation and whether looks can conquer liking the person
Flower looked longingly at the coloured contact lenses...would purple go with his image?
Well yes and no. No because 95% of the time I have to fancy them and like them as people without a doubt. Sex for me is far more than just the physical. Yes because I broke that rule once because of a situation and it seemed right at the time (and no regrets either but a good learning curve)
There was a thread a while ago - Have you kissed someone you didn't fancy and went "WOW" once you started?
So once in a swinging situation I thought I'd try seeing as this "try and be surprised" idea was in my head, the guy in question didn't appeal to me physically but was a really nice guy therefore I liked him just didn't fancy him.
Anyway, nope it didn't work. Shall not be repeating, shall stick to my intuition next time.
pink x
Slut is just plain horrid in my book yet tart is a great word to use jokingly "You ol' tart" when someone is flirting. If I got called a slut even in swing play I wouldn't be best pleased. I also tend avoid all profiles with said word in as I find it portrays an image I am not comfortable with.
pink x
On a similar note we were told not to floss your teeth even the day before, so we always do it two or three days before and let the gums heal in case of any bleeding.
On the teeth brushing front, we brush usually at least 2 hours before we play (flirting time gives a good space to most mmeets anyway)and never take toothbrushes for last min brushes
All makes sense but very few people seems to know about it, s spreading the word can only be good and if jst a handful of people trot off to get their Hep jabs then all the better.
The dearly departed or absent family and friends goes without saying so at 2pm - Absent friends
Other than that:
Proper cooked food not from packets/tins/freezers (with some exceptions but as a generalisation)
Carol singers/singing/services
Proper bread sauce (not packet shite)
Sprouts (sorry but it's traditional)
Nuts
Satsumas
Excited kids
Making and eating Mince pies
Making and eating Sausage rolls
Smoked salmon
Cosy house
Being together
Remembering past Christmasses (even if they do make you cry/feel sad because of loss - embrace it)
pink x
:rose: :smug: :notes: :rascal: that's much better honey bunch 
xxx 
) so the act of meeting, quick chat and a shag is not always satisfactory for me. Having said that we have had fab times at clubs too, but I think the crucial ingredient for me is the 'clicking'
apparently, they insert a steel umbrella up yer cock, and then just pull the rip cord, and scrape it back out? :shock: :scared:
Oh well glad LP wants me at the least wrapped around his neck 
