I am a 51 year old professional, who is a happily married woman, but also erotically deprived. My 'wink' gives more information than you will find here. I will update my profile when I have more time. For the present - I am seeking a slow-build relationship with an older man, preferably one who also has a secure emotional life, and who has patiently and sensitively dominant tendancies. I am NOT looking for a fast solution to my deprivation - so I am unlikely to be a quick or easy solution to yours! If that challenge appeals, then email contact could be the place to begin.