I am not currently doing any meets, only here to socialise. When I do meet I only meet up with single guys I have previously met at site socials or munches (A munch is a purely social event held in a totally neutral environment, often somewhere like a pub, where members of Swinging Heaven get to meet each other. As there's no play involved everyone can relax which gives newbies a chance to ask questions of the more experienced without any fear of getting jumped on, and gives the regulars time to catch-up with old friends and make new ones) if you do not meet this criteria dont bother asking to meet as it irritates me. I occasionally swing with my male partner. Please note anyone who sends me a "wink" it will not be answered, I am tired of reading the same message over and over and over again!!!!!