I am dominant. I have always been dominant. I am not "a" dominant, nor am I "a" Master. I am what I am.

And experience - how does one answer that. My life has been in control, expecting obedience and discipline, rewarding, protecting, caring and loving - as well as teaching, training, moulding to my way through encouragement and punishment.

Life without rules is too unstructured for me. I expect my needs to be your needs, my wants to be your wants, and your deep feeling of satisfaction from knowing you have not just pleased, but delighted me with your service and submission.

For me bdsm isn't about sex...sex is a part of it, as it is in any relationship...its about TPE mental and physical...when the relationship is right it is magical, almost mystical...deeper and far more committed than any other type of relationship...based on trust and respect.

My future partner will be one who has the ability to anticipate my needs, who responds to a look, a touch or a word, who accepts discipline and punishment with a desire to improve and one who devotes their soul to a relationship. An "unequal equal" and a "partner in kink".

I expect a life outside of D/s too, with someone who will crave to be on my arm in public and for whom I feel a deep sense of pride. You will be mature, well dressed and likely to be of slim or average build - and enjoy lots of laughter, too!.

I enjoy long haul travel, cooking, cinema, music -especially live, conversation and debate, some television (but not much), the sea, mountains, driving and beauty.