don't push the idea too much though it might be better if it is her suggestion really then you might get what you are looking for

totally agree with all the previous comments winks are annoying did not realise they sent an automated message till now but i don't use them anyway how long duz it take to think of something to say and type it out ffs you are in the end more likely to get a positive response from a real message than something automated if only to say no thanks but thanks for the interest anyway people should  try it they might find a different outcome happens if they do