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bygeorge
Over 90 days ago
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jeez another fine slag off from mr ATTITUDE from "oooop north"
I sincerely hope 4 newbies you are not a mentor ?
obviously you have nothing better to do than put my posts down
I am well aware of the mentor scheme and once again feel I only added some helpful and friendly information which Im sure could even help to take some load of the mentors
as it answers many basic questions
the post was actually supposed to have been a reply in the above post
re: (are you a newbie needing help)
I regrettably pressed the new topic button instead of the reply button (I m still learning)
Most human brains never stop learning or can never have too much information ----
with it seems the exception "yourself"
who appears to have an unlimited amount of unhelpful and unfriendly advice for all and sundry for whatever reason
do you really need to put down new posters RUDELY like this ?
it is hardly encouraging for me or NEWBIES
or is that the idea ?
one hopes that as you reach puberty your attiitude will change
bygeorge
help for new posters

hope this is usefull I felt it offered some good advice also this site
Sexuality and the Net
with Emphasis on Cybersex: An Annotated Bibliography

good luck
bygeorge
well at least your reply confirms youre actually human and youve considered my feelings as a first poster I respect that and that youve replied and offered an explanation thank you
HOPEFULLY I can now soldier on and become a respected member and considerate poster in this fine community
bygeorge
tsk tsk
fabio grooverider and da69v
cynicism sorry obviously being a first poster albeit a frequent visitor though
seems I didn't understand the rules Ive rechecked the AUP and FINALLY found the Hidden print
1. "all NEW posters who feel they are helping or require help from the fantastic community on this board will automatically get attacked first post by cynics and those who don't live in glass houses "
2. "to become accepted in the community YOU WILL agree with the majority, REFRAIN from posting your opinion as other experienced posters ,will always have better opinions and put you down if they can, because that's what helping is all about." dooohhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
Seems the guy that started this post jerrylondon got slated too by the cynics too
NO I DO NOT OWN THE CLUB OURPLACE4FUN
Okay ill start again so lets drop all my previous comments about my thoughts of the club
As it seems only you guys are allowed to make them without criticism
da69ve FEEL ITS OVERPRICED FOR MALES and not worth the cost
I asked the club why THE FEES WERE AS SUCH confused:
The answer FROM THE OPERATORS was :: To reduce the amount of applications and lessen the intake of guys to create a more amicable mixed event not outnumbered by single males
Ive travelled the UK and Europe most clubs have two many guys
OURPLACE4FUN do not 1/2 guys per couple is a bloody good ratio for me
But as a couple da69ve who are seeking ONLY couples I fail to see how this fee bothers you and don't see anything helpful in your reply to jerrylondon ITS HIS CHOICE ALSO
Anyway LETS forget the club points the best clubs are oooop north
YOU BOTH AGREE so that's "good" at least that's a HUGE majority verdict not that it helps any persons living in London
One day I may go back oooop north if any of you can suggest a good club to try as a single male that's not costing arms and legs of course and not overwhelmed by guys
I would appreciate it and with a really cheap membership
My point you conveniently ignored was simple
the posts by bigslut if you care to analyse are deviant and primarily point to ADVERTISING a club/clubs
In-fact both of the clubs north London east London bigslut suggests frequently even pms to those requesting info :: are operated by the same people
IN MY OPINION BUT IM a newbie without your skills AND FEEL FREE TO BE EVEN MORE CYNICAL the poster bigslut contravenes board rules
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Please excuse my ignorance fabio grooverider and da69ve
I realise now that pointing the obvious out reflects on those that perhaps monitor and may have missed it so I therefore remain guilty of the offence of "attempting in helping" to keep the board true to its purported values
But nonetheless fabio grooverider and da69v I will stand and be counted or slagged off by cynical comments or whatever
Only in the hope that the clear thinking management cum moderators of this board allow me the priviledge of making further apparently in your eyes inane contributions to this board
and to continue voicing my opinion freely as you do
I see no need at all for your cynical replies to me or anyone else especially newbies
I had and still have the belief that swinging was about "choice"
bygeorge
One tends to notice a sure sign of not quite ethical posting by bigslut not that Im improperly suggesting that bigslut has anything to do with promoting the (couples club ) the Direct Competition and Neighbour to OURPLACE4FUN (now isnt that a coincidence ) but out of 36 posts bigslut certainly wasted time in jumping on the self promoting bandwagon
as one comment was made " 34 posts in 4 days an expert already"
I amongst many others Im sure am a very contented single male member of OURPLACE4FUN
The fees were well worth every penny to ME and its a matter of taste my tastes and expectations of a Good Swingers Club rest with OURPLACE4FUN the Nicest Swingers Club I personally have visited thus far in London
Their Membership fees are only equivelant to just a week on top of a very reasonable entry I personally have never had a bad night at the club
I HAVE visited the club you are seen keen to promote "ONCE" only and frankly its no wonder they dont charge couples a fee to enter
My views are if business at the couples club the club you obviously seem far too keen to represent
really is that bad ------
That you are drawn to publicly slagging off a club youve probably never attended (in the interest of self promotion)
youre A VERY SAD INDIVIDUAL
whilst I undersatnd everyone here is entitled to view and express their and fair
opinion youre expressions are certainly unfair and unnecessarily derogatory and in my opinion purely for self gain
or am I blind ?????
bygeorge