* Update 30/06/14 *

Okay, so having been away from the site for a while i am now back. I'm also now in Walsall and looking to hook up with all your sexy midlanders. Men - if you are going to get in touch - please read the profile and don't just send friend requests or winks - make some effort.

Looking for people to chat, hang out, and generally be myself with.

I'm a bit of a geek and into most things (football being the only exception really). I'm as happy putting the world to rights over a drink as i am exploring erogenous zones with a lover over the course of an evening. In terms of who that lover would be - well i guess in an ideal world someone with a similar outlook to me. That said, anyone who has a willingness to learn, lead, and perhaps help me with one or two items from my bucket list (see bottom) would also be perfect.

As far as attraction goes, it's very important. I am not looking to screw my way through. The best sex is with someone you have a connection with, ideally someone who is on the same wavelength as you. For me, the physical pleasure is a product of the mental attraction, and not the other way around. Not bothered about age or race, smell and attitude are far more important. There is nothing like being with someone you connect with, who smells good and tastes good.

I'm not really into labels and would describe myself as just 'sexual' rather than straight, bi or whatever. By that i mean, that i don't close my mind to things - if i find you attractive, there is a very good chance i will want to take things further. Ideally hookups will be more than one night stands, although i'm open to offers.

Anyway, rant over, if you are still interested after all that, get in touch. I would prefer if you message rather than wink at me. It's not like you have to be a paid up member to send a message, and let's face it - winks are just a bit lazy.

The bucket list:

- MFF (done before, but would love to try again)

- Pegging

- MMF (again, done before but fancy a revisit)

- Orgasm play/forced orgasms

- Dogging/alfresco sex (again done before - hence the profile name, but always keen to repeat)

- Toy fun

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