Hi there and thanks for taking the time to have a look at my going through the divorce process - Enjoy watching and chatting. Not looking for anything. Mail me - if I like what I see I will add you as a friend so we can chat. Oh and don't call me hun or babe or whisper vile suggestions - have some respect please! Yes I know what sort of site it is but that's no excuse! And no, I am not a newbie - was on here a while back as a couple so I am not new to any of it - be warned lol! And for those of you who think I am really a man hiding behind a woman's profile - get real please. Married men on here alone no thanks - bi also no thanks - I am choosy you know lol

And finally, I get bombarded with whisperers every time I enter the chat room - 27 once so please, if I don't get to you, you know why! I do try and at lest say hi if nothing else so no hard feelings yeah? I am not ignoring you lol Bella x

And finally, finally - I am getting somewhat tired of the same questions re my profile - yes it is me in my photo's, no they have not been enhanced in any way and yes I am 50! I could say I am younger if that makes it more credible for you but I would be lying through my teeth - some of us are fitness fanatics and eat healthily - rant over! Grrrrrr