Keen to get into more exciting aspects and experiment with compliant couples or females playing alone. Love hotel scenarios and open to suggestions. Generous, gentle and considerate yet can also be Dom. If you're looking for someone to watch or film you both then please get in touch. Keen also on nice legs and the smart business look. Photo available on request.

I have to find the balance of giving you enough information without prattling on too much after being deleted but I do wish to progress this and hope therefore to keep you interested.

I have actually had previous experience with a couple in my home city, North of the border, before I moved down South. On that occasion it all really started by accident as opposed to this more formal application if you like. We had been friends for a while and one late night with too much drunk all round, husband plastered and collapsed upstairs. It was suggested I should stay the night. Things then became a little more cosy with Marie (her real name), but I guess what gave me the courage that evening was a little belief that the whole thing had been planned and that Robert, the husband, actually wanted this as well and indeed Marie finally assured me that he did know. And so we carried on for two and half years before work demanded that I move down to Cambridgeshire. Why am I looking on this site? Well I just put it down to mismatched sex drive with my present partner, nothing more, nothing less.

Feel a need also to dismiss personal performance as I was always very attentive in satisfying a girls needs, meaning that caressing, oiling, (Body Shop strawberry lotion is great), massage and foreplay is vitally important to bringing a climax before penetration. Although I do understand the need for sheer lust. "It seems strange talking like this because I'm probably deleted already and confined to the inside of a virtual recycle bin" One thing I did learn was about pressure and whilst I'm not submissive I do know that with a discreet relationship, never to get carried away and I found it easier for Marie to call the shots at all times. That was in my mid-thirties and I guess I've been starting to look with interest at the swingers sites to see if there is anyone who, like me, would like a similar sort of relationship.

About myself, a YOUNG 51 year old, dark hair, brown eyes and a wicked sense of humour. Approx 5.6, non-pushy, non-smoker (but no hang-ups), drink occasionally but NEVER if I know I'm driving the following day. Soft Scottish accent with a caring and discreet personality. I do get the balance right between control and respect and now very keen to hear more about yourself and indeed the opportunity to answer any questions honestly that you will no doubt have for me.

I am not tied down timewise and can easily make your windows of opportunity!

So far this has all been me, me, me but I'm not going to ask any searching questions of you. To be discreet, I guess I only need to know what you want to tell me, but still I'm genuinely interested to hear about you, what you do, what makes you laugh, sad, warm, content. I'd also like to get to know the naughtier you, any fantasies to explore, BUT you can tell me what you want in your own good time.

If I don't hear from you I know it will be my loss but of course I'll respect you and offer you both best wishes for a great Christmas and New Year.