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Look out the window- its sunny- go up to the hills, look at the view, log off and realx. I know I would if I could!
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If I would you I would be more annoyed that someone had ruined my thread!!
Would you should have said when I first posted was
" Sir, this isn't a thread to discuss what turns an individual on, this is a thread to arrange a meet. Thank You."
A good moderator will make sure that threads keep to the topic in hand, and gently (or indeed firmly) guide rouge and troll posters away.
Would you should have said when I first posted was
" Sir, this isn't a thread to discuss what turns an individual on, this is a thread to arrange a meet. Thank You."
A good moderator will make sure that threads keep to the topic in hand, and gently (or indeed firmly) guide rouge and troll posters away.
I know this is a complete hunch, and it IS just a hunch, but you give me the impressiont hat you are fantastist who lives out sexual fantasies through internet forums.
Now I could be completly wrong- and screw me if I am- but the ammount of effort you put in to planning this- and the time you spend on my clearly garbage posts- suggest that this forum etc IS the experience for you.
Now I could be completly wrong- and screw me if I am- but the ammount of effort you put in to planning this- and the time you spend on my clearly garbage posts- suggest that this forum etc IS the experience for you.
I get the impression that lots of the guys here really are just after a nice shag, rather than a voyeuristic or swinging experience. Why not just go to a brothel? Prices start at around £40, but think of all the time you will save!
And PLEASE this is a genuine question, it would be good to see some responses that answer it rather than simply long debating type threads.
And PLEASE this is a genuine question, it would be good to see some responses that answer it rather than simply long debating type threads.
Ok, just to clear up some confusion a bit- there are I think two types.
Most people here seem to be "swinging doggers" who aim to meet up with others, usually couples, in public. This is well organised, well structured and safe- and in many way this is like a swingers club. The only difference is that the location is public. The emphasis is on being friendly and polite, and ultimatly the aim is sex (well, most of the time.) As such the way they use this forum could be to discuss meets etc
Then there are the voyeur doggers- perhaps the "old breed." Their aim is to watch and spy, and to keep a distance. As for the shagging couple then they ARE part of the system, but they ain't the doggers. I get the feeling that the THRILL comes from the fact that someone *might* be watching. As such there is little or often no contact between the doggers and the couples.
Worth pointing out that I have never ever practiced either.
Most people here seem to be "swinging doggers" who aim to meet up with others, usually couples, in public. This is well organised, well structured and safe- and in many way this is like a swingers club. The only difference is that the location is public. The emphasis is on being friendly and polite, and ultimatly the aim is sex (well, most of the time.) As such the way they use this forum could be to discuss meets etc
Then there are the voyeur doggers- perhaps the "old breed." Their aim is to watch and spy, and to keep a distance. As for the shagging couple then they ARE part of the system, but they ain't the doggers. I get the feeling that the THRILL comes from the fact that someone *might* be watching. As such there is little or often no contact between the doggers and the couples.
Worth pointing out that I have never ever practiced either.
To me this seemed a little TOO "organised" to the extent that there would be very little randomness or voyeurism going on.
You started talking about being conceited-why, I never mentioned that?
What I was saying really is where is your thrill>? If you plan something in so much detail and know exactly who will be there then where is the public or voyeuristic element?
I'm not saying your doing this wrong or anything, but really you just seem way too conservative.
You started talking about being conceited-why, I never mentioned that?
What I was saying really is where is your thrill>? If you plan something in so much detail and know exactly who will be there then where is the public or voyeuristic element?
I'm not saying your doing this wrong or anything, but really you just seem way too conservative.
Yeah, i guess your agreeing with me! Surely the whole point of exhibitionism is that ANYONE might see you, rather than hand-pick't and invited guests?
what blue seems to be trying to do is arange a secret, but public, get-together for people that share his/her interests- which is grand- but that ain't dogging!
what blue seems to be trying to do is arange a secret, but public, get-together for people that share his/her interests- which is grand- but that ain't dogging!
Yeah, I agree with dave-
Too many of the posts here are from couples that are so demanding of the watchers- to the extent that they specifically forbid certain types of people from watching.
This isn't really the spirit of dogging- to me it is about watching, and being watched by a STRANGER- and the whole point is that the stanger could be anyone. Sure, you don;t want to be in any danger, but too much control ruins it too- if you become nothing more than a peep show from drooling guys- then there is no excitment.
Remember that whist dogging needs couples it also need the watchers- after all that IS what dogging is.
Too many of the posts here are from couples that are so demanding of the watchers- to the extent that they specifically forbid certain types of people from watching.
This isn't really the spirit of dogging- to me it is about watching, and being watched by a STRANGER- and the whole point is that the stanger could be anyone. Sure, you don;t want to be in any danger, but too much control ruins it too- if you become nothing more than a peep show from drooling guys- then there is no excitment.
Remember that whist dogging needs couples it also need the watchers- after all that IS what dogging is.
What a minute, are you talking about dogging?
I don't mean this in a bad way, but why on earth is this so sturctured and planned.
Aranging it all in advance???? To me dogging is about voyeurism- that is the person being watched, and the person doing the watching have basically met up "by chance." For sure there are agreed places, and codes etc,
But planning an event a week in advance????? Where is the spontaneous urge?
Strictly telling people they can and can't come????? Surely the whole point of any form of puiblic sex is that you DON'T have full control over the voyeurs.
For sure, this is all very safe, but where is the FUN??
I underastand that there is a safety element, but from what you say I completly fail to understand what you enjoy about dogging.
If you want to have some group sex with people who share your specific interests why not just do it at home?
I don't mean this in a bad way, but why on earth is this so sturctured and planned.
Aranging it all in advance???? To me dogging is about voyeurism- that is the person being watched, and the person doing the watching have basically met up "by chance." For sure there are agreed places, and codes etc,
But planning an event a week in advance????? Where is the spontaneous urge?
Strictly telling people they can and can't come????? Surely the whole point of any form of puiblic sex is that you DON'T have full control over the voyeurs.
For sure, this is all very safe, but where is the FUN??
I underastand that there is a safety element, but from what you say I completly fail to understand what you enjoy about dogging.
If you want to have some group sex with people who share your specific interests why not just do it at home?
